A guiding principle for me as a childbirth educator is to encourage proactive preparation. We can never predict exactly how birth will unfold, and we can never guarantee a specific outcome. But being proactive is all about controlling what we can and “clearing the path”. You can read more in my blog post, linked below:
🧭 Clearing the Path: Benefits of Proactive Prep for Birth and Beyond
Once you find out you’re pregnant, it’s important to get scheduled for your first prenatal visit as soon as you can. You may not be seen until closer to the middle or end of the first trimester (usually somewhere between weeks 6-12), but appointments can fill up quickly. It’s also helpful to let your care provider know you’re expecting, just in case anything comes up in early pregnancy. You can always contact them if you have questions or concerns before that first visit.
Beyond just scheduling this first appointment, this checklist will help you prepare for it and for pregnancy.
Your choice of care provider can have an effect on your available options (like where you give birth) and your birth experience. Because of this, it’s one of the most important decisions you’ll make about your pregnancy. (However, you can always change providers at any point in pregnant, if necessary.) It’s ideal to find someone who supports and prioritizes your right to make decisions about your own body. Sometimes the care provider you’ve seen for years for routine care isn’t the best fit once you become pregnant. Check out my blog post below to learn more:
🧭 Foundational Decisions: Choosing a Birth Location and Care Provider
As you’re researching your options for care provider and birth location, you may need to consider any limitations imposed by your health insurance plan. Make sure to:
If you don’t have insurance, make sure to check out this link:
🔗 Health coverage if you’re pregnant, plan to get pregnant, or recently gave birth | Healthcare.gov
Be aware that you can only sign up for health insurance during open enrollment periods or as a result of major life changes (like having a baby). You can apply for Medicaid or the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP) at any time, though.
If you do end up choosing a new care provider, make sure to have your medical records transferred to their office. Contact your current provider when you’re ready to start the process. You can also check out the link below to find out more:
🔗 Your Rights to Access Your Medical Records Under HIPAA | Verywell Health
Your provider will want to discuss your health history, as well as your family health history. It can be helpful to gather this information in advance. Your provider may provide you with a form or you can use this one:
🔗 Family Health History Form | March of Dimes
Make sure you fill out any other forms in advance. This is also a great time to set up your online account/ portal, if applicable.
During pregnancy, routine well checks are handled by your prenatal care provider.
You also want to make sure you’re keeping up with and managing the following:
📝 Note: How chronic illness or medical conditions are managed (and by who) will depend on your specific circumstances.
You can reduce the risk of neural tube defects (birth defects of the brain and spine) by ensuring you are getting 400-800 mcg of folic acid each day. At least one month prior to conception through the first three months of pregnancy is the most critical time for supplementation. You can meet your daily needs by eating fortified foods and/ or taking a supplement (more on supplements further down).
While this a well-established and sound recommendation, you may hear individual health care professionals, nutritionists, and birth workers recommending supplements containing “natural food folate” instead.
Learn more in my blog post, linked below:
Many people take medications during pregnancy, but it’s important to discuss what you’re taking with your care provider. Some medications are contraindicated in pregnancy (and could even cause severe birth defects). For most, it comes down to informed decision-making regarding benefits and risks.
‼️ Important: Check with your care provider before starting or stopping any medications.
It’s important to discuss any supplements you are taking, as well. Your nutritional needs change during pregnancy, so your care provider may recommend switching to a prenatal vitamin supplement at that point. While it‘s best to get necessary vitamins and minerals from foods, supplements can help you fill in any gaps.
Your care provider can help you figure out if there are any vaccines you need. Most are safe to get while you’re expecting. It can be helpful to bring an updated vaccination record, if your care provider doesn’t already have this information.
Check out the link below to learn more about vaccine recommendations and accessing your vaccination records, if necessary.
It’s ultimately your choice as to which vaccines you choose to receive. It’s important to note that there is a lot of misinformation surrounding this sometimes controversial topic. Reliable information and research evidence is crucial in informing your decisions. Check out the link below for more information:
Testing for certain STIs (syphilis, HIV, and hepatitis) is a routine part of prenatal care. Others (chlamydia and gonorrhea) may only be done if you’re considered “at risk” or if you ask.
STIs are really common and often very treatable. Symptoms aren't always present, so STIs can go unnoticed. Unfortunately, untreated STIs can have a negative impact on fertility and can be passed to babies before and during birth.
There are optional tests that can be done before or during pregnancy to determine whether or not you and/or your partner are carriers for certain genetic disorders. Genetic carrier screening for certain disorders (cystic fibrosis, for example) is offered to anyone trying to conceive/ all pregnant people. Screening for other disorders may be recommended to those whose risk factors are higher, which is determined by ethnicity, family history, and personal health history. Keep in mind, both partners have to be carriers for a child to inherit a disorder. Even then, it isn't a guarantee. A genetic counselor can help you make decisions about additional screening. They can also talk to you about the likelihood of passing down a genetic disorder and possible options, if necessary.
Pregnancy and postpartum can be a catalyst for major change. Start considering the potential impacts at home and at work.
Workload is going to increase when you bring home a baby. Start having discussions with your spouse or partner about what household equity might look like for you. It is not uncommon for much of the increased load to fall to one person, which can lead to resentment and other issues. Check out the website below for a great book recommendation (and more) to help with these discussions.
If you will be parenting solo, check out this book for tips and advice on managing the load:
🔗 Doing it All as a Solo Parent
It’s never too early to start thinking about how having a baby will impact employment. Do you have access to paid maternity and paternity leave? If you’re working full-time, will you continue doing so after your baby arrives? Are you (or your partner) considering switching to part-time hours or any other changes? Are you (or your partner) considering becoming a stay-at-home parent? What are some options you might have for child care?
Now is a great time to start focusing on your health and wellness, if you aren’t already! A lot of what I’ve already mentioned in this post is part of it, but there is more to taking care of yourself.
Here’s a list of some areas to consider:
After reading through the resources above, note down any questions and concerns you have to discuss with your care provider at your visit. Also, consider any lifestyle changes you want or need to make now that you are trying to conceive or expecting.
Hi, I’m Brookelyn Justine, and I’m a former airline pilot turned childbirth educator. I have a deep respect for the benefits and power of physiologic birth AND an appreciation for advancements in medical science that offer us valuable tools, when needed. Click on my image to learn more about me!
The journey to becoming a parent can be both joyful and turbulent. Support along the way is key. Whether you’re just thinking about trying to conceive, managing postpartum life, or somewhere in between, this blog will be here for you as a resource.
Just a reminder that my content is for educational purposes only. It’s not medical advice.
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